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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would call his phone, girls home or parents and let them know you are coming over to get him now with your spouse and that he loses the car privileges for a month, cannot go out without you or your husband except school and activities and restrict use of the phone.  From now on all texts and emails go to your phone as well AND he is restricted from downloading anything without your permission.  I would email the parents and let them know what happened and let them know his is not to sleep over or be at their house when they are not home.[/quote]

OP here. Thank you. That is where I am headed. I just wanted to test the temperature out there.
So I’m not off base in my belief that spending the night together at this age is not appropriate not least because not only I but her parents do not approve? Are 17/16 year olds spending  nights with gf’s now? I know I sound mad but are my rules too restrictive? I’m just sick that he would deceive us like this and I’m doubting myself and wondering if I pushed him to this. I don’t think that is an excuse to deceive but I just want to get perspective. 
I want to have a balanced reaction to this. [/quote]

In the context of a committed relationship i would have no problem with them spending the night. Though i would be happier at 17 or 18 than 16. But teenagers have always had sex, and the more restrictive the parents the more dangerous the behavior that can result.[/quote]

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