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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like it's beyond your personal vision of your budget but not his. The point is that you need to make a budget together. Do you know what you spend now, and on what? If not, work together on that. Then add in likely costs for a second child. What's left? What are your shared priorities? Where are each of you willing to compromise?[/quote] OP here. My budget is $800k or under. The house he found is a little over $1 million. Our HHI is around $400k. We don't have any debt but a car he leases and our mortgage. We can afford the $1 million but that is still out of my comfort level. We are in a good spot financially and save 80% of what we make. We pay $40k now for a nanny ( daycare is around $25k) and we are hoping to send both kids to a private school and pay for college, etc. All of that is expensive. [/quote]
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