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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend of mine set me up with a guy who she thought was a great match with me. To be honest, he’s perfect on paper. If I was to see his profile on a dating app, I’ll send him a message.

Yesterday, I decided to go on a date with him. I was initially quite nervous at first, but my nerves calmed down drastically once I started getting to know him. Halfway through the date I was extremely comfortable and relaxed around him. He’s got such an amazing personality and he’s a really kind person overall. We have similar goals in terms of career.

However, I never felt that spark. I feel like I’m not physically attracted to him. I don’t feel like I want to be intimate with him. Basically, no sexual attraction.

I’m confused on whether I should reject him or schedule another date. I told my friend about my feelings and she told me that she wasn’t initially attracted to her DH the first time she saw him, but he later grew on her. She’s encouraging me to go for a second date to see if my feelings towards him increase or not. But I feel a little repulsed from him and if I’m being honest, I can’t stand the thought of kissing him.

With the way I described things, would you suggest I reject him or give him a chance by scheduling a second date? [/quote]

You have to decide is the “on paper” attraction more important vs sexually attraction. Just remember for most women sex drive decreases and takes less importance vs other things(“on paper” attraction).

This can be good or bad. Good- decrease sex drive means you can marry someone who you do not find sexually attractive because it’s not like you will be having a lot of sex or even thinking about it. I think quite a few women end up doing this and are happy with their sex life. Bad- mismatch sexual attractiveness can lead to bitterness over time. One person thinks ever is great the other does not. 
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