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Reply to "agreeing on friends and who to spend time with"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't have to do everything as a couple. It's perfectly okay for you to have your own friends and DH to have his own.[/quote] OP here. I'm fine with that. It's just that he expects me to be around to hang out with his friends. Or, one of my friends is all about double-dates after work and wants to cancel stuff if my husband can't come (and I don't like to feel like a third-wheel). Maybe we're just at that point after 15+ years that we both need to be ok with doing things separately more often that we expected. [/quote] Why don't you ask if he'll agree that in the new year, you'll BOTH compromise for each other? One week you'll hang out with friends he arranges and the next he'll hang out with friends you arrange?[/quote]
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