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[quote=Anonymous]When I first moved in with DH he did my laundry and cooked elaborate meals. After I got pregnant with our first he went into full breadwinner mode. It’s like a switch flipped and he became incredibly focused on maximizing his career success/earning potential. And yes, that means he stopped doing his fair share at home. But I work a similar job for similar pay so this wasn’t working for us at all. After maaaaany long talks about evening the load he has taken over some things. But he doesn’t really do a good job. I am at a loss. I don’t want this dynamic but he refuses to sacrifice a single bit of work time/energy to fix it, and he thinks I’m wrong to even suggest it. [/quote]
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