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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP. :( One thing that sticks out to me is you saying: "I don't know what the hell is going on, but pull yourself together and get over it." And then beating yourself up over it. [b]That's really not a huge deal. In my own relationship, I could say that to my DH or vice versa (and we would say it in a normal tone of voice) and it would be ok.[/b] Part of a partnership is being able to call each other out. You can't be walking on eggshells all the time. Misery. I think the thing you really need to consider is how this will affect your son. Growing up in a household where, as a child, you have to be on eggshells is really damaging. [/quote] +1000 I said the same thing to my husband yesterday. So he let it go and we were fine. If you can't say this to your husband without him flipping out there is a really big problem here. I'm sorry, OP.[/quote]
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