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[quote=Anonymous]When I visit my son/DIL, I try to help, and DIL won't let me do anything for her. She declines help with laundry, cooking, cleaning, everything. Whenever I offer to help, she just urges me to play with the kids, or go relax. She's always polite about it, but I feel shut out. I've seen her family visit, and it seems more like they're family; I'm a guest. I've even offered to pour her coffee. She'll say "no" then go get herself a cup a moment later. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. About to visit for Christmas and looking for some advice. [/quote]
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