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[quote=Anonymous]Husband is seriously debating whether to accept a job in NYC. I want him to take it because it comes with a huge raise. It would substantially raise our standard of living (high six figures, low seven depending on bonus).

I am willing to try living in Manhattan but he says no way on that and that is our biggest hang up on whether he wants to take this job: where would we live and what would the commute be like for him? We have 3 kids, he strongly prefers suburban living (the extra space, he loves mowing the lawn and grilling out, that whole deal), we want to do public school, but we also want him to be able to spend time with our kids on weekday nights. We're worried about the length of the commute.

We're open to anything, NJ burbs or Westchester burbs. From my preliminary research, it seems like NJ burbs are closer with shorter commute but Westchester is considered nicer for some reason? Any opinions on that?

Budget around 1.5.

Where would you choose to live where the commute is doable? He might be able to negotiate some WFH days to cut down on the commute.

Like if it's a 90 min commute, that is tough but if he's only doing it 4 days a week maybe not so bad? Plus if you're commuting by train, I feel like that is less exhausting than driving?

I mostly SAH with a hobby job I do on the side at home so I am portable, lol.[/quote]

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