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[quote=Anonymous]My SO and I have been dating for a year. We introduced our kids this fall and everything is going great. The kids get along really well and we all have fun together. Both of us told our ex’s about the kids meeting us and the other kids before it happened. Not much fanfare with that.

We’re planning a trip with all of us for spring break. We booked a place two weeks ago and told the kids last week. Both of us put the trip on our individual calendars shared with our ex’s, location included. The kids are super excited.

All the sudden my SOs ex feels compelled to meet me. She got in touch with him today telling him no PDA allowed, and all kind of things that she doesn’t approve of regarding me, even though she doesn’t know me. My SO told her no, that she cannot dictate the terms of how we interact, and told her to trust him.

He told her he would leave it up to me if I want to meet her. I’m okay with meeting her. Even if she’s going about it wrong, and being a bit controlling In her approach, I get wanting to meet someone who is spending lots of time with your kids.

So, how do we do this? Coffee somewhere? A quick handshake at a drop off? I have between now and April to figure it out...

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