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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with what PPs have said. Counseling immediately. Maybe your ob as well. And, yes, if you love your husband, don't tell him you are repulsed by him sexually, though he obviously knows you are having libido/intimacy problems. (that you want to fix.) I went through similar problems, and when I even hinted to dh that part of the problem was that sex wasn't satisfying to me, he was really heartbroken. And he is a man who has never suffered from self-confidence. He felt like a failure as a husband, and that only made me feel even worse. Probably what you are going through--given the demands on you with the kids and your unexpected second pregnancy, hormones, etc--is not that surprising. But that doesn't make it not a big deal to you. A good counselor will help you work through it. You are absolutely not the first or only one, so try not to feel too alone. Hang in there.[/quote]
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