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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm also a split shift WAH parent. Kids hit the front door around 4:00, then it's some combination of snack/play with friends/homework/dinner/activity until bedtime. There always seems to be less time than I thought there would be.[/quote]

Do you feel like it's worth it for you to do this vs. paying a high school kid or something to come over and hang out for a couple hours?

One thing holding me back from wanting to try this is that I feel like it won't necessarily be quality time.  It'll just be driving them around to activities etc.[/quote]

We walk to our activities so there's time to chat or stop for a snack to or from. It's very relaxing and a nice way to unwind and connect. Not sure of that's possible for you but we deliberately pick walkable things to do.[/quote]

I think whether walking or driving, you get quality time with your kids. I've heard many parents say that time int he car with their kids is the best quality time. Both allow the opportunity to talk without distractions (assuming your kid isn't on electronics in the car).[/quote]

+1. Driving (or walking) time is good talking time with kids because you're not required to look the other person in the eye so there's less pressure. But yeah you gotta keep the electronics away.

Also, many parents lament the lack of reliable PT help. High schoolers often have after-school sports or activities. College students have changing schedules every semester. It's easier (and nicer IMO) to do it yourself. You can answer e-mails on your phone while they're doing the activity.[/quote]

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