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[quote=Anonymous]SIL is mentally ill and years ago her husband begged her to stop taking her medication so she did. She’s a terrible person. I don’t know how much of it is her vs the illness. I witnessed her spank a 1 year old for having an accident in his pants. Her cousin had a stillborn and SIL showed up at the hospital uninvited and going on about her own pregnancy. She asked what the baby’s nursery was done in and announces that her baby’s nursery had the same theme. You get where I’m coming from. SIL has ZERO remorse and cousin cut her out of her life. SIL tells people that her cousin needed someone to blame and she needs “help”. Completely gross and not okay and I’m the only person other then DH that sticks up for cousin. MIL and FIL just nod along. SIL is racist. All in all she’s someone I refuse to be around or subject my daughter to and I feel I have good reason. Naturally this upsets MIL but DH made it clear we won’t be at Christmas the same time SIL is and we would prefer to celebrate with them a different day entirely to avoid drama. MIL told us no and that she needed to take her tree down and then proceeded to tell us what time we would be there. Now we aren’t spending Christmas with them at all and have blocked them for the time being. Last week MIL showed up at ballet to corner me about Christmas and I ignored her questions. That’s what lead to DH contacting her letting her know our plans for Christmas. Today is DD’s ballet Christmas program and I think MIL will show up if we don’t uninvite her. Quite frankly I don’t feel like being cornered again. Is it out of line to ask her not to come?[/quote]

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