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[quote=Anonymous]Have the second. It is a gift to your first child, that will live on after you and your husband have passed on (most likely). It is someone to help your first care for you, and grieve you, when you get old/pass on. A sibling is a companion on vacations and just weekends at home. Someone to teach him how to share, and take turns. The second child will save your first child from getting an unhealthy amount of attention and focus from you. Try, if it is not meant to be, it will not happen. The Universe has a way of working out. PS-You said you put your marriage first. This is something your husband wants. Don't think of it as threatening your relationship. Rather, you are listening to him and trusting that he knows what you can all handle. Good luck![/quote]
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