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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you feel you already have everything you want, why can't he have something he wants? [/quote]

OP. Maybe I am seeing it from only my side. Maybe we compromise. I just don't think spending like $200k on a wedding is worth it. I did get a beautiful ring but he is the one that picked it out. [/quote]

200k for a wedding for 100 people? that has to be a typo!

Is it about the number of guests or the total final price t
You want 50, he wants 100 - sit down and do a guest list together and see who those extra 50 guests he has on his list and ask why he wants them - genuinely - are they friends? family? people who invited him to their wedding? more distant family members w/ whom he still has a tie? work friends?  Figure out what the # means to him.

If it’s about $$, figure out if there are ways to cut costs, and consider, if your incomes and savings are different if you should be paying proportionately vs 50/50.  Come up with a 5 year budget plan that address wedding, normal life budget and buying a house and kids/daycare (if that’s on the 5 year horizon)..

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