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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had to deal with this last year. I texted her so that she could receive the info and react/cry/etc. without feeling like she had to congratulate me on the phone or sound happy about it.

As a warning - I hope your sister reacts better than mine did - we barely spoke for a year and a half. She has yet to really acknowledge my baby. It's basically ended our relationship. She's going through the adoption process now and I'm just praying that once she has a baby we can go back to normal. [/quote]

I’m sorry but that’s just crap. She never acknowledged your baby?  Her pain is no excuse. That is vile behavior. [/quote]

Agreed. I know I’ll get flamed for this, but I think people who that selfish and self absorbed shouldn’t have children, and I’m kind of glad they don’t.

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Original quoted PP here and while I agree my sister is pretty self absorbed (that was true before infertility and infertility has made it 100x worse), I would never go so far as to say she shouldn't have children. Her pain is unimaginable to me. Al I want in the world is for her to get a baby and to repair our relationship. I have no doubt that baby will be incredibly loved if not obsessed over by my sister. People with far worse personality traits than self-absorption in a time of pain get to have children. [/quote]

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