Reply to Failing marshmallow experiment. Advent calendar is a special kind of torture

Forum Index » General Parenting Discussion

Reply to "Failing marshmallow experiment. Advent calendar is a special kind of torture"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I feel like most of us know what I’m referring to. It’s an old experiment which showed 3-4yos who could delay gratification went on to be more successful in school than those who didn’t.

My 4yo would fail this miserably ten times over.

She’s a great kid. She’s really bright—not like smart (ha ha) but good at most things and she’s always paying attention. She doesn’t miss a thing. She’s also really outgoing and has a magnetic personality. But she cannot wait for anything. If she wants something then she cannot stop thinking about it. A lot of times she cannot stop herself from just taking it without permission. If you have her three marshmallows she would put all three in her mouth while asking for more. And she’d cry immediate when you say no. The advent calendar is not going well. Obviously I need to parent this and make it work, and I will, but wtf, kid?

I’m not embellishing. So what is this? She’s clearly behind her peers in this regard.

She does not seem to have ADHD but it’s still early. She just cannot wait. She is really impulsive. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics