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[quote=Anonymous]Do not let her set you back in therapy. Remember and repeat yourself this: You are different person now, you are an adult. You have your family and wonderful husband and kids. She can NOT hurt you now. It is all in the past. All in the past and door is closed. When she will start about the past you have two choices - either let her for once tell all she wants and agree with everything even if you don't. this way she will feel first time validated and that might be all she needs as the more you deny the more she is upset and the vicious circle continues. Once you will agree and acknowledge she will stop. Anytime after that, smile and say" MOM we discussed it all and we closed this chapter. I know it was painful for you, it was p ainful for me as well so LETS not talk about it anymore, lets move on. [/quote]
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