Reply to DH giving me silent treatment for so long that I’m losing interest in him

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "DH giving me silent treatment for so long that I’m losing interest in him"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For starters stop giving him a reaction. That's exactly what he wants, and you keep falling for it. Try to work on your self esteem, I would never BEG someone to stay with me. [b]Next time he threatens divorce tell him you were thinking the same thing, and you plan to see an attorney. I would ignore his silent treatments, but I would tell him in a firm voice if he continues to belittle you, threaten you, or go radio silent instead of communicating like adults you do plan to move on.[/b] Don't say anymore, and go about your business. If he won't change I would divorce his ass. He's a psychological abuser.[/quote]

This ^.  He has completely checked out.  To me, through his actions, he doesn't care about or love you, and in fact, it seems he is harboring some deep resentment. Did something happen between the two of you?  Even if he were a little angry at something, behavior like this is so utterly not normal so there may have been something quite big (at least big in his mind) that turned him down this dark path.  No matter what, his behavior is just ridiculous.  You deserve some answers and if he's not willing to share, you need to plan you exit or live through a lifetime of hell.

- happily married father of 3 [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics