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[quote=Anonymous]9:44 gave excellent advice. I just wanted to say that I think you're being brave and smart about this OP. I'm so sorry you're in this position. Also, FWIW, this will have a significant impact on your kids but it may not be as negative as you imagine - they are certainly aware of the dynamics you're describing and it's possible there will be relief in escape for them. It's also possible they are worrying about you and not having to do that (whether or not it's fully conscious) is a burden off them. Don't underestimate your kids, either in their awareness or their resilience. And if you are going to be the best mother you can be then you need to be safe. Period. Taking care of and protecting yourself IS protecting your kids. Good luck. Take your time and be careful.[/quote]
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