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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lawyer first
Smart to take photos
Create a leaving plan with Lawyer. 
Do not ask for less in exchange for anything. He won’t work with you.

If he’s as volatile as you are suggesting be careful not to give him any hints you are thinking of leaving.

Why do you never access the joint account?

Buy a bunch of prepaid Visa cards or any prepaid cards. This way if you need to leave but he cuts off credit cards you have some and he can not track you either. Some people buy these at every store they shop in $25 one place $25 another. You get the idea.

Take photos of car registrations as well. If you have passports for you and your kids make copies . Sounds odd to do this but many people use important papers as tactics to be annoying.

I’m sorry this is happening. Stay strong! [/quote]

Thanks - this is so helpful and yes, I'm totally beaten down. I just want out. I don't access the joint account because he has always wanted some separation between the big bills and savings and the day to day expenses. He didn't want a lot of little debits on the main account for security reasons - def a control issue on his part but he is a good saver and I am more of a spender so it's worked.

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