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[quote=Anonymous]Op, sit with your Mom, hold her hand, tell her you love her but say that you need to suggest a different dynamic. You would like her to treat you as an equal. You would like her to treat you as a friend. If she wouldn't say it to a friend, she shouldn't say it to you. She shouldn't give advice -about anything- unless asked. Start with that. (you can be flexible on the "anything" but start with a hard line). Tell her you know change is hard. Do not back down based on her saying, "but I'm you Mother ... I'll always be your Mother ...it's how I show my love ...etc" [/quote]
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