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[quote=Anonymous]I know people who have killed and been killed by drunk driving. I’m trying to be compassionate, but I understand the myriad of many concerns in welcoming someone into your family hat had the capacity to do something you could never fathom. Yet, circumstances aren’t always evidence; many of our service members have killed or been killed. So, context does matter. People do change; it’s almost a guarantee. Do they change for the better, or the worse? All people - They are often unpredictable, outside of Maslow’s needs. however, their emotional instability can cause external instability. You can only trust yourself here. This is kind of a situation where the wisdom of your gut from direct 1:1 interaction and observation with this person helps to inform you on how to interact. I would work to and informed and proactive. Q1: Is this man is truly dangerous? Q2: is anyone at risk? Q3: How does this impact your parental relationship with your mother? Q4: How does this impact your children? If you won’t attend the wedding, the assumption I make is that you do not intend to welcome them in your lives moving forward in general. Correct me if I am wrong.[/quote]
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