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[quote=Anonymous]It’s NOT code for gold digger. It’s code for responsible. I date a great guy for three years who was never ever going to be financially responsible. It drove me insane. I realized I didn’t want to be the only grown up in a relationship. Especially if we had kids. So yeah he next guy I looked for needed to be financially responsible. Saving for retirement, little to no credit card debt, able to think long term, manage wants versus needs, shared the same values as me about finances (money for experiences versus a Fancy car for example). We are married now 10 years. Never had one disagreement about finances. Spend money on travel and now include our kid. Tons saved for retirement. No worries. Even in a crisis we will be fine financially. Drive a car that is 11 years old when we could be driving a new Tesla. Everyone needs to read the thread from the woman who said her husband was sending them into bankruptcy.[/quote]
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