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[quote=Anonymous]I think that you are hurt by your mom because you have certain expectations of a mom and so you imagine that your daughter will be as hurt by her as you are and therefore need to cover to protect DD. But your DD already has a great mom and won’t experience your mom’s failures with the same disappointment that you do. Don’t pretend that your mom is this wonderfully loving person in her life so she can discover later that she’s not. Instead treat her more as a distant relative (shouldn’t be hard at 2 visits a year).[/quote]
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