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[quote=Anonymous]It's fine to want that. But it still looks bad to put it in a profile, and won't achieve the effect you want. For one thing, it is going to drive away good guys. Some will think you are a gold-digger. Others will think you have emphasized "financially stable" precisely because [i]you[/i] are [i]not[/i] financially stable. ("She wants a financially stable guy because she recently declared bankruptcy. Hmmm, no thanks.") For another thing, it is not going to deter guys who are not "financially stable." You think that loser who lives in his mom's basement is going to see that and say, "OK, she won't like me, I don't have a shot, so I won't bother her"? No. He will think he can change your mind if he convinces you to meet him in person and date him for a while. Just like if you say you want a guy who is at least 6' tall, the short guys will still sweet talk you and then oh darn he shows up for the first date and he's not 6' tall after all. [/quote]
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