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[quote=Anonymous]Our nanny has worked for us for 4 years. DH and I have received job offers in another state and we are very likely moving in Jan or February. I told our nanny today and she was devastated. I haven’t told our kids yet, but they will be devastated too. Now I’m regretting our decision to move and wanting to go back on it. I just feel like I’m hurting her and hurting my kids who love her like a 2nd mom. Can anyone talk to me about transitioning away from a long term nanny, where the kids are extremely attached to her and her to them? I believe she loves them as her own. We’ve invited her to come with us but it’s not feasible for her. We’re also doing everything we can to make this transition ok for her financially. But it feels so small compared to how heartbroken we all are. We will invite her to visit and pay for it, and we will come back to visit every year, but after spending almost every day together for so long that doesn’t feel like much comfort. [/quote]
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