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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok OP. I feel for you. I really do. But please take a big step back. This is your wife and mother of your kids. You likely fell in love with this aspect of her personality. Lives in the moment etc. you are wishing now that she was different than she is. She isn’t. She never will be. You will never change this aspect of her personality.

So now you have a choice. Do you let this one thing ruin your life together including your kids sense of well being? Because it will. OR do you embrace this aspect of her personality. See the beauty in it and laugh about how different you two are but a perfect match anyway.

And make the reservations yourself. For any important event that takes planning, you are the designated planner. That small shift in responsibility will literally save your marriage. And don’t hold a grudge about it. Just laugh and give her a kiss and embrace your differences and accommodate for them.

I see marriages get derailed all the time over stuff like this when they don’t have to. [/quote]

turn the tables and you'd be telling the DW to divorce this man child not embrace this aspect of her personality. See the beauty in it. Bunch of bologne. Fail to plan, plan to fail.[/quote]

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