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[quote=Anonymous]Wow. The range of responses.

First: I will always support my girls to not be touched when they don't want to be, even by their father. In no case will i back him or anybody else up who thinks they have a right to touch my girls when they don't want to be touched. Period.

My children have commented on him taking things the wrong way and assuming I was getting on him when I was not.

Do I really have a preferred dishwasher cycle? No. That was a made up example of something I thought was simple and non offensive. Clearly I was wrong.

But I will take note of asking him to do things that are unnecessary and could be done whatever way he wants. I do actually think it is both partner's responsibility to do what their partner wants. So if he wants to load the dishwasher a certain way ... I do it because I don't care. And if I want the towels folded a certain way ... I fold the towels myself because he can't seem to keep them straight. And if I want thehouse warmer I put on a sweater because he tells me I'm wrong about the house being cold.

So. I will take note of being a nag. It probably was me.
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