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Reply to "The true answer for why I am less interested in sex is his weight gain - do I tell him that?"
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[quote=Anonymous]My perspective, as someone married to a wonderful man who has put on more than 100 pounds since we got together: If he struggles with his weight - for whatever reason - you can either accept that he is going to be a bigger guy, or you need to break up and move on. And please, if you do the latter, do not tell him it's because you don't feel attracted to him due to his weight. He got big in his marriage and made an effort to lose weight once his marriage was over. Being bigger is honestly probably his body's natural state - he probably has to work extremely hard to not be bigger, and I don't know if that is sustainable. He probably knows that you prefer him thin. He probably prefers himself thin. If you can't live with him as a bigger person, I think you should probably move on and you can both find partners you are more compatible with.[/quote]
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