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[quote=Anonymous]I see lots of husbands on here complaining about lack of sex. I wonder how many of them have guts that get in the way. I'm dating someone who was a decent weight when we started dating. In his marriage, he said he got complacent and gained weight and was sloppy in his appearance, etc. He lost weight and exercised more and ate better when once she initiated divorce, and when we started dating about a year ago, he looked pretty good. Now, he is developing more of a stomach. A gut. It's not enormous, but it's enough that I am less attracted to him. More importantly, it gets in the way during sex. I don't like his weight pushed up against me when he is on top of me. Honestly, it is uncomfortable. He's putting too much weight on me. Recently he asked why I seem less passionate and less eager for sex. Some of it was more emotional relationship issues what we needed to resolve, and we seem to have talked through that and are doing better on that front. But really - a lot of it is, I am not as attracted to him. He's eating and drinking too much. His stomach literally gets in the way during missionary sex. Yeah, we can do other positions, but cmon.... Do I tell him the main reason? And if so, how? I already recommend that we do physical activities together. And he eats pretty healthy - he just eats too much sometimes, I think. He seems to just eat even when he isn't hungry. Like he will finish a plate of food just so as not to waste food even if he is not hungry anymore.[/quote]
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