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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am right there with you, but with a relatively new girlfriend. She freaks out about 2X a week, usually by announcing, "I have anxiety" and it's putting me on edge as it's usually followed by baseless fear that I am upset with her about something (when I'm not, at all -- sometimes she concludes this from afar because I didn't text that morning or something). Honestly, it's a red flag and the irony is the frequency with which this happens is irritating and IS going to cause problems. I know she cannot help it, but it's no fun to be on the other end of it, either.[/quote]

And do you seriously think this will get better?  Do you think having a mortgage together, negotiating inlaws together, having kids together is LESS stressful and anxiety producing then your lives right now?

[b]Dude, this is the BEST it will ever be.  EVER. [/b] If it's not mind blowingly fantastic then get out now.[/quote]

Yes.

I had a relationship with someone like this. It was like being a toilet that they dumped everything into the moment anything went wrong. Heck, just to unload from the day. [/quote]

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