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[quote=Anonymous]My husband seems to be hiding his “work wife.” Unfortunately I know because I have looked at his texts.  They don’t seem to be more than close work colleagues,  but my husband doesn’t talk about her.  I know they’ve had drinks together a few times without mentioning it - most recently he said he went out to a work parry and everyone got drinks after, but the texts show that he left the one work full function to meet the work wife for a drink afterwards. As further background, I had a work husband of my own at my last job who I was very close to, but I was very open about it with my husband - talking about the work colleague openly and our plans to get drinks, etc. my husband has never mentioned the work wife.

I don’t know what to do.  Nothing? I shouldn’t be looking at his texts, I know that.  Which complicates talking to him about this.  I could probably raise a question about drinks I see on bank statements, but should I?  Or try to get at this another way?  My optimistic side says he may just be hiding this because he thinks I would be jealous, and doesn’t want to deal with that when he knows their relationship is innocent.  Should I just make it clear that I would support him having work relationships like the one I have with my work-spouse?

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