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[quote=Anonymous]I am thinking about divorce and how I can get out of this situation without a lot of damage for both of us. 
We don’t have kids.  I am 36 yo and always dreamed about having kids one day.  My husband is 41 and always wanted to work on his career and pay his 100k+ debit he had accumulated before we got married (that I was not aware of).  We have been married for 10 years.  I have worked as a nanny and preschool teacher.  This was and is my way of making a little bit of money and being around children.  He told me a while ago I needed to work in a real job, so I decided to work part time and go back to school.  He makes 135k and I make 26k working part time.  We don’t have kids.  He is addicted to drugs, has a big problem with alcohol and this is destroying me.  I was hoping things would get better and it got worse.  I am the same OP from the thread about reporting the husband because of the adderral abuse.  I am afraid for my future, I didn’t focus on me, I never made enough money to pay for school.  I have been taking one class here and one class there and paying it by myself but I feel so depressed, old, alone.  I left my family, my friends, my college half finished in my home country, and now I feel like I have wasted years of my life just running after the wind.  I just feel so lost because I barely could pay for a consultation with a lawyer.  I don’t want to get as much as I can from him.  I love him and eat the best for him, but I feel like he should at least help me during this transition (while I get out of his condo and find a cheap room to rent).  I wanted to go back to my country right away, but I left my country and didn’t finish my degree there, and for that I feel so terrible because my dad paid thousands for something that I didn’t achieve.  I wanted at least finish my associates degree here before going back.  Just so I don’t feel more loser than I already am.  And yes, I will start taking Zoloft and I feel like I’m drowning. [/quote]

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