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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been in your shoes OP, except it was an 10 year friendship.  I’ll give you the honest truth and hopefully save you some embarrassment - She’s either upset with you or doesn’t find your friendship useful anymore.  Don’t bother asking what happened or if you can make apologize because either way you won’t get a straight/honest answer from her.  [b]The friendship was not important enough to her to give you both the chance to repair it[/b].  Move on, be polite/cordial but don’t make any additional effort with her.   [/quote]

NP also going through something similar - laughing and having fun together 1 day, then radio silence the next.  The bolded is the part that really stings most.  I thought we were really close but apparently it wasn’t worth letting me know that something was bothering her. I surely would have apologized if it was a single incident or made an effort to change if it was an ongoing issue.  It’s sad (but somewhat reassuring) to see how common friend ghosting is.  My expectations of lasting friendships is lower these days.  Enjoy them for today because people are really fickle.  [/quote]

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