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[quote=Anonymous]Bisexual woman here in a currently monogamous marriage that was open previously, largely because I married young and wanted to explore my bisexuality.

I think the stigma for bisexual men is just about the worst there is.  There are lots of supposedly progressive, LGBT- friendly women who have no problem expressing their revulsion at the idea that their man might be bisexual.   It's actually easier to be a gay man or woman or a bisexual woman in today's culture than it is to be a bi man.  So I have a bit of sympathy for the down-low bi man.

That being said, this is your DH's issue to work through.  He sounds like he has his own identity issue that no one but he can tackle.  Your issue to decide is whether you want open and honest communication with a husband who respects you.

Being so resistant to a conversation that he threatens divorce is not being a good partner.
Cheating on you is not being a good partner.

You deserve a good partner.  Your DH might be a good man dealt a difficult hand going through some shit, but he's not being a loving and honest partner to you.[/quote]

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