Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "how can I stop being mean to my 13 year old?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What consequences do you give her when she does something like run up a $101 lunch bill?[/quote] She already doesn't have a cellphone. She doesn't seem to care when she loses anything. I'm not sure what the consequences can really be? We told her her chore money would go to paying it off but she's so deeply in debt from all the other things like taking my debit card to cvs and buying things, going through my wallet and taking $5 and lying about it, taking the case off her kindle and taking it to school without permission and dropping the screen so we told her she had to pay to get it fixed and wouldn't be able to use it again... Open to other suggestions because she doesn't have screens and she's already doing chores without pay.[/quote] I’m sorry OP. There is a lot to unpack here. The stealing is beyond typical bad teen behavior. What has the therapist said about consequences and general behavior management? Has your daughter been diagnosed with ODD?[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics