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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he ok with other stuff? I think you can get a good feel for the type of lover someone will be if you can do 'everything but' so to speak.

But if he wants to deny basically all sexual contact until marriage that would be a non starter for me. It is a really important part of marriage and being able to be open and relaxed about it is a critical part of keeping it a healthy part of your marriage.[/quote]

This.  If you spend any time on this forum, you know how quickly marriages go sour when the sex life goes sour.  I've been with DH for 20 years, and we have a very healthy happy relationship (emotional and sexual), and honestly i don't even have a very high sex drive. But when we go two weeks without sex (he's traveling, then i'm on my period, then we have a few days of insane work - and suddenly it's been two weeks), we notice that it starts to impact our emotional connection pretty quickly.  It has nothing to do with your need for sex - it just feeds into your overall marital health.  Sex is way too important to a marriage than to risk on someone who may not want to have it, or who may not be good at it.  [/quote]

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