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[quote=Anonymous]Op you need to convince your sister that you will NOT take this baby. Do whatever you need to do, but convince her. Tell her what you told us- that you now have three other children and have zero ability to help her again. Make her believe you. You have to- or she won’t be making a true choice here. She needs to make her choice knowing and expecting zero help from you. We both know the above may not end up being true (and you will step in for the child’s sake) but you need to make her think otherwise. You know your sister best. Could you ask your spouse for permission to throw him under the bus? My DH wouldn’t mind. I’d be tempted to lie and say DH 100% forbids it and that is why I can’t do it this time. Whatever it takes to convince her she needs make a real choice, and that you will not be her fallback this time. [/quote]
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