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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You tell your sister that you will not be able to take the child, period. [/quote]

This is what I am struggling with. OP here. It is so cruel and unfair. I see my nephew and see what a child can become if they have a stable home and support and it breaks my heart to do that. [/quote]

You are basically agreeing to take the child so that she doesn’t have to make difficult decisions. You have told her as much. This doesn’t seem compassionate of you at all. 
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No, I haven't. I haven't said a word. She assumes what I'd do. I am struggling mightily with the idea. I hope it never, ever happens, but even she is operating in the when and not if paradigm.

I don't know what I'd do, honestly. It is such a conflicting situation. And I am married now, I have other children, and I am not a 24 year old doing her internship year during residency. It's such a mess. [/quote]

If she tells you that she will give you the baby is there is a problem and you say nothing, you are basically agreeing, especially since you took her first. That is certainly how your post comes across. If it is not the case that you would take her baby, or you don’t think you will, it is very problematic to go along with what she is saying, without making this clear. [/quote]

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