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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it possible to get facts vs your interpretation of motives?[/quote]

OP here. In all fairness, I do think she wanted to reconnect more with the parent and she was not 100% estranged. She just basically went over 15 years where she rarely visited (less than once a year), never hosted parents, was MIA when anyone needed help and enjoyed a lot of freedoms we could not due to parental obligations. I do think she wanted to have closure, but she did make sure she was in the will.

With regard to needing our help, she has only been kind to us when she needed something so yes, ahe's at it again. She had an ugly divorce and does not have many friends because they tire of things being one way and get burned out. My brother and I both have spouses and kids of our own so we don't have endless time to cater to people.[/quote]

If she visited yearly and called she was not estranged.    My husband's brother was estranged and wouldn't visit or call or take calls forms.  You have another sibling. You dnt' need to cater to her but its not like you don't have help.  Try doing it all alone.[/quote]

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