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[quote=Anonymous]DS15 had a big test today, one he's known about since the beginning of school year. Subject is one that he likes but has to work hard at to do well (better than a C).

He studied - sort of - over the past weekend although in my mind, wasted a lot of time and could have done much more to get himself ready for test.

Sunday night, we were gifted a couple of tickets for Nats game last night. DH was clear: You have this big test next day, game will be late, IF you are ready for test, you can go.

Monday afternoon (game day) DS asked me to help him review. Very clear to me that he had a long way to go in studying; couldn't answer basic questions from review sheet. DH said no game and took DC2 instead.

DS really upset (understandably), grabbed basketball and headed to the park. Stayed away a couple of hours, although texting me (at home) with updates on his whereabouts. He threatened in text to stay out late and sent a selfie from a location about 2 miles away. I kept cool and told him a favorite dinner was waiting. Returned home still upset, but ready to eat, take shower and study. Stayed up until about midnight studying. Said test today was "easy." We shall see.

My concern is the "running away" and refusing to return home when asked. If this is not punished, does it lead to staying out much later the next time he's upset?

Thanks for any advice. This is new behavior as he's generally a good kid.

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