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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi,

My brother cheated on his lovely wife.  SIL tried to forgive him but he would not stop contact with the OW.  She gave up kicked him out and filed for divorce.  My brother is now in a relationship with his OW.  Per the agreement he made with SIL neither party can introduce a SO to their kids until 6 months after the divorce is finalized.  Their divorce is no where close to being finalized.  That has not stopped my brother from trying to introduce his mistress to the family though.  No one wants to meet her.  My parents took a really hard line and the mistress is banned from their house period.

I am hosting TG this year and my brother asked me if he could bring her to my house to meet me the day AFTER TG.  I told him it was a bad idea.  I love my brother but he has made such bad choices.  Allowing him to bring his mistress over would be like supporting those bad decisions.  I told him if they were still together in a couple of years then maybe I would consider meeting her.  He blew up at me.  I don't know what to do.  I hate to say it but I agree with our parents on this.  He is acting like a different person and I don't like the person he is now.  [b]He said not to push him or he would not come around at all.[/b]  Our parents say they don't care and not to give in to his temper tantrum.  My parents think that if he gives up the OW he will stop acting like a crazy person and he can get back with SIL.  SIL will never take him back.  I don't think my parents are being realistic at all in that regard.  [b]WWYD?[/b][/quote]

I'd tell him to grow up and wave bye-bye.

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