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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We don't argue much because there is nothing to argue about. Things I would consider worth fighting about include: infidelity, spending large amounts of family money of stupid things, being generally unreliable re: kids. My spouse is a responsible and empathetic human being so these don't really happen.   [/quote]

I don’t have a responsible spouse. Partly due to his ADHD and just poor judgment, then lies and arguing when something does go wrong.

Over time it was clear: divorce him and hope for the best when he had to care for the kids, or just leave him alone to only work, because he was truly incapable of doing anything else. Thankfully he has not been fired or needed to seek another job for awhile.

So we used to argue- about messes, about forgetting things or discussions, about bad/no planning - but now I do everything and pay through the nose for a monthly handyman visit, landscaping, house cleaning, drivers for the kids, meal planning kits, etc.  And less arguing. General resentment is less, but I know that he is unreliable so if something bad happens on his watch- to me, the house, the kids, on vacation- it will be a chaotic mess. And I’m not exaggerating. If I gave examples you’d wonder wth I’m still in it.[/quote]

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