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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a bad sign if couple don’t argue much. They’ve probably given up and allowed resent to build.[/quote] It’s amazing how wrong this actually is. [/quote] This is true if there are disagreements that you don’t voice. But if neither of you have disagreements, then fighting just to fight has no purpose. OP- DH and I rarely get into “fights”. We get snappy and cranky, and usually apologize soon after or the next day. We have disagreements that we discuss, sometimes heated, but it rarely rises to the level of fighting. According to Gottam’s 5 types of couples, we are Validating. One interesting thing about the types of couples, there is one kind that argue a lot, Volatile, but they make up for that negativity with lots of positive interactions. https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-5-couple-types/[/quote]
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