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[quote=Anonymous]I'd send him an email and tell him how you feel and what you want. I'd offer to do whatever it is he needs aside from him saying "Let's stay separated". In other words, if he needs you to validate him more, do that. 
I wouldn't invite him to lunch with no more details, mostly because no way would I agree to a meeting with someone who I wasn't getting along with. I would want to be prepared for the meeting and I'd worry you'd tell me you wanted a divorce, were pregnant by someone else, had met a guy you wanted to date, basically all kinds of things I'd not want to hear in a public place.

If you want him back, say so. Also tell him what you will do if he does not want to get back together, not as a threat but as a "hey, if you don't want to get back together now, I am going to think about moving to another part of the country, or take a job I've always wanted... basically let him know that the current situation cannot and should not be endured forever.

I'd also let him know what you are planning to do so you won't get into another 6 year cycle of misery. 6 years is a long time. I don't blame him at all for saying and then acting on his desire not to continue living that way.    
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