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[quote=Anonymous]Depends on how much money you are working with. For me, I would mention anything over 5k- not because I have to or need to though. It also depends what it is for. If I pay a $5000 bill for school cost, I wouldn’t bring it up. But if I wanted a $5000 watch, I would bring it up. For my husband, he wouldn’t mention any amount he spent ever. In fairness he hardly spends money, but when he does it is very large amounts on various investments or business ventures. For us, I feel like there is an element of because I SAH and he earns, he does not feel the need to get my approval on what he spends. He has never outright said that, but that is how it is. Since he doesn’t badger me about my spending, I stay quiet about his too. He makes enough that it isn’t worth squabbling over. [/quote]
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