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[quote=Anonymous]Its okay to want a 5 year plan. But putting down your partner--lack of respect--is marriage killing. If my husband didn't respect me, I would leave. Or look elsewhere if I felt caught. Cheating, flirting whatever is super tempting when you feel unappreciated by the one who supposedly is your number 1 champion. So, you need to figure out whether you really want to stay married to him--as he is--or not. If you do you need to work hard to regain his trust (and the other way) but also accept him for who he is. He didn't marry you to change you. If you can't do that--if you know, deep down, that you will never be happy with him/his plan/his ambition/whatever, its better to apologize and separate cleanly, lesson learned. [/quote]
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