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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I hope you get some good advice here.  You sound introspective, that is a good start.

I can identify as your husband, married to a woman who is/was my best friend, lover and confidant.  As the kids came, she became more moody, more critical over little things.  She makes comments about how I do things, react, etc that are not at all how I view myself or anyone else I know.  We have some days that are better than others.  our sex life has slowly gone from occasionally and decent to less occasionally and often "hurry up, I have things to do"

I cheated, and I know its wrong but it is a self-esteem lifter and frankly it helps me stay married and sane.  I am not actively cheating now, and hope not to in the future.  I don't want to leave or lose my family.  I would love to rebuild with my wife but she has to want to.

Agree with others above, cheating can be reconciled if you both want to and both acknowledge room for forgiveness and improvement.

FYI, I think these situations are incredibly common.[/quote]

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