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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should absolutely feel responsible for your role in the breakdown of the marriage and you are also responsible for the emotionally abusive way you treated him.

However it was his choice as to how to cope and deal with his unhappiness and with your actions. If he did cheat, that was his choice.

Whether or not your marriage is salvageable depends on whether he also wants to salvage it. If he has been on the receiving end of put downs and pressure and there hasn't been much reward in it for him, he may have a hard time seeing a path forward. You also have to decide to accept that cheating and infidelity was how he coped and could cope again. I would start with seeing if he wants to stay married as a start and if you want to stay married to someone who wasn't faithful (if you have proof)[/quote]

OP here. The thing is, I know a 100% that if we were at the top of our game in our marriage and were happy, say like 2 years ago, he would never dream of cheating or anything like that.

I know this is a symptom of his unhappiness and deep hurt and anger at me.

This has been a wake up call to me and I am deeply sorry for hurting him and crossing his boundaries. 
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