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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have any easy answers for you but over the past year of our marriage (15 years) I noticed that no matter what I say to my DH he disagrees- "No" is his automatic answer. It's ridiculous to the point that our DCs noted it. He obviously realizes it b/c sometimes-after an egregious incident,  he will back peddle a bit - yet it continues. It seems, at times, it's simply for the sake of disagreement.

If I were not able to encapsulate this behavior this way, it would indeed become an "irreconcilable difference in divorce court"

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[b]You all have spouses who feel the need for control and power over you and at home instead of partnership.[/b]  You need to get him to be a team player and get the best ideas winning in your household. That means he also needs to generate ideas, think about options, communicate to decide mutually the best ones and then do it! [/quote]

I'm the last poster who doesn't know what our CC debt might be, if any.
Is that it? Is this all about control? I've suspected it before, but he's pretty mild mannered, so it flies under the radar.[/quote]

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